Comments on: selfish http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/ Sat, 22 Nov 2008 03:20:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: L http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10693 L Thu, 27 Mar 2008 12:45:27 +0000 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10693 I'm sorry lady. Hope it gets better. xo, L I’m sorry lady. Hope it gets better.

xo,
L

]]> By: Princess Pointful http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10682 Princess Pointful Thu, 27 Mar 2008 07:48:52 +0000 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10682 I'm glad you have this place for catharsis, and I'm sorry you have to experience the someone you rely on so greatly letting you down. I’m glad you have this place for catharsis, and I’m sorry you have to experience the someone you rely on so greatly letting you down.

]]> By: Um... Yum! http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10655 Um... Yum! Thu, 27 Mar 2008 00:58:37 +0000 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10655 I'm sorry that this is happening at all and especially around your birthday. I hope you still have a wonderful day tomorrow. Happy birthday, Jamie! You are a wonderful person. :o) I’m sorry that this is happening at all and especially around your birthday. I hope you still have a wonderful day tomorrow. Happy birthday, Jamie! You are a wonderful person. :o)

]]> By: Jamie http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10648 Jamie Wed, 26 Mar 2008 23:49:17 +0000 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10648 So I'm like the 200th comment, but I'm still commenting.,, I'm so sorry for you! I'm sending you big hugs! Can you feel them!!!??? So I’m like the 200th comment, but I’m still commenting.,,

I’m so sorry for you! I’m sending you big hugs! Can you feel them!!!???

]]> By: Schriftstellar http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10615 Schriftstellar Wed, 26 Mar 2008 17:19:39 +0000 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10615 Jamie, I'm so sorry. It sounds like such an awful and complicated situation, and I can only imagine how frustrated and angry you must be. Blessings, good thoughts, and happy birthday to you! Jamie, I’m so sorry. It sounds like such an awful and complicated situation, and I can only imagine how frustrated and angry you must be.

Blessings, good thoughts, and happy birthday to you!

]]> By: chasingparadise http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10590 chasingparadise Wed, 26 Mar 2008 13:52:52 +0000 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10590 Jamie, I'm so so sorry that you're going through such a mess! Your mother sounds like a selfish nightmare! I feel so bad for your dad. It's not fair to him for her to demand all these changes. In my opinion (and I know it doesn't matter all that much) if she wants to leave, she should get out and let your dad have the house. It's your home, and your brother's home...she has no right to expect that. Money or not...what's more important? You would think she'd want you and your brother and dad to keep your home. She can go where she wants. Jesus. I'm so angry for you. It's just not fucking fair. Jamie, I’m so so sorry that you’re going through such a mess! Your mother sounds like a selfish nightmare! I feel so bad for your dad. It’s not fair to him for her to demand all these changes. In my opinion (and I know it doesn’t matter all that much) if she wants to leave, she should get out and let your dad have the house. It’s your home, and your brother’s home…she has no right to expect that. Money or not…what’s more important? You would think she’d want you and your brother and dad to keep your home. She can go where she wants. Jesus. I’m so angry for you. It’s just not fucking fair.

]]> By: Vanessa http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10548 Vanessa Wed, 26 Mar 2008 00:48:38 +0000 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10548 I'm so sorry your mother is doing this. I also have a crappy mother but it doesn't make it hurt less. Just try to take good care of you, don't keep the anger bottled up inside and most of all, Happy Birthday! I’m so sorry your mother is doing this. I also have a crappy mother but it doesn’t make it hurt less. Just try to take good care of you, don’t keep the anger bottled up inside and most of all, Happy Birthday!

]]> By: Deutlich http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10546 Deutlich Wed, 26 Mar 2008 00:34:25 +0000 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10546 I can empathize more than I'd care to.. except in my case it was my dad. It's just not pretty, dealing with something like this. Not at all. ::hugs:: I can empathize more than I’d care to.. except in my case it was my dad. It’s just not pretty, dealing with something like this.

Not at all.

::hugs::

]]> By: Allie http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10498 Allie Tue, 25 Mar 2008 17:11:36 +0000 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10498 OMG my mom did this same thing to my dad. She told me 2 weeks after my BIG spit with my X when I was already devastated! She secretly went off on trips and was hiding everything. She said she just wanted to be FREE! I hated her for a whole YEAR. She got hair extensions, a belly ring and a little bmw sports car. She was super weird and NOT my mom at all. Its taken her a little time to calm down but her and my dad are working things out now and the hair is gone. I'm blaming it on a SUPER mid-life crisis since she had me and my sis at such a young age. I'm so sorry you are going through this...I know how hard it is. I just wanted to SHAKE my mom and say WAKE UP!! WHO ARE YOU!!! Hope all gets better soon!! I will keep your family in my prayers. OMG my mom did this same thing to my dad. She told me 2 weeks after my BIG spit with my X when I was already devastated! She secretly went off on trips and was hiding everything. She said she just wanted to be FREE! I hated her for a whole YEAR. She got hair extensions, a belly ring and a little bmw sports car. She was super weird and NOT my mom at all. Its taken her a little time to calm down but her and my dad are working things out now and the hair is gone.

I’m blaming it on a SUPER mid-life crisis since she had me and my sis at such a young age. I’m so sorry you are going through this…I know how hard it is. I just wanted to SHAKE my mom and say WAKE UP!! WHO ARE YOU!!!

Hope all gets better soon!! I will keep your family in my prayers.

]]> By: Penelope23 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10487 Penelope23 Tue, 25 Mar 2008 13:58:56 +0000 http://ohhowlovely.net/2008/03/24/selfish/#comment-10487 Jamie, I am so sorry. Parent's suck sometimes, we all know that. I hope you can find a way to work through this that is GOOD FOR YOU. :) I'll be thinkin' about you. Jamie, I am so sorry. Parent’s suck sometimes, we all know that. I hope you can find a way to work through this that is GOOD FOR YOU. :) I’ll be thinkin’ about you.

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